designing an engagement ring
Designing an Engagement Ring: How to Do It Right
Designing an engagement ring isn’t just about choosing something pretty and shiny—it’s about creating a piece that actually means something. It’s the one ring that’s going to be worn every day, through everything, so it needs to be right. Here’s how to approach the process without losing your mind, your money, or your partner’s trust.
Before anything else, let’s talk numbers. A custom ring doesn’t have to cost the earth, but it does need a clear budget. Being upfront about this from the start helps everyone—you, your jeweller, and your bank account. Whether your limit is £1,000 or £10,000, knowing what you’ve got to work with means your jeweller can guide you towards the right materials, stone options, and design features without wasting time or giving false hope.
Budget isn’t a dirty word—it’s a foundation. It tells us what kind of stones are realistic, what metal to go for, and how elaborate the design can be. It doesn’t mean compromising on beauty or meaning. It means designing smart.
Forget trends. This ring needs to suit the person who’s going to wear it every day. Think about their style—are they vintage magpies? Minimalists? Do they wear jewellery already, or is this going to be the one standout piece?
Designing an engagement ring is less about copying Pinterest and more about translating someone’s essence into gold and stone. What matters is that it reflects them, not what’s trending this year.
If your budget doesn’t stretch to a big diamond, lab-grown stones or coloured gems can be stunning alternatives. Sapphire, spinel, champagne diamonds—they’ve all got their own personality. Don’t get tunnel vision about “the rules.”
Here’s where it can get sticky: how much input should your partner have? If it’s a surprise proposal, then yes, you’re flying solo. But that doesn’t mean winging it. Pay attention to what they wear, what they compliment, and if in doubt, ask a close friend or sibling who gets their taste.
But honestly? If you’re even slightly unsure, ask them. A lot of couples come in together now, and it’s brilliant. You can still keep the proposal moment special—pick the stone together, but reveal the final design at the proposal. There’s no rulebook anymore. You can even propose with the stone and we can design the ring afterwards.
That said, if you’re the kind of person who wants to plan it all yourself, make sure you’re doing it for them, not to prove something about yourself. A ring isn’t a performance—it’s a partnership.
Designing an engagement ring should be exciting, not stressful. Start with your budget. Think about their real-life style, not some showroom fantasy. And when in doubt—communicate. The best rings are the ones rooted in reality, thoughtfulness, and personal connection.
Ready to start designing something meaningful? Come by the shop or drop me a message. I’d love to help you get it right.